I love you, stranger!

Being moody is probably one of the worst characteristics to have, especially if you are a woman. And even more when you think you are intelligible. So the pack of surprise arrives for one’s self and one’s confidants when you seek a company you denied earlier and ask for help from some 1 unexpected. But I know almost everybody would agree that what you can share with strangers at times, you cant with your intimate ones.

The reason I believe is that when u talk your heart out to a person who’s not so important in your life you don’t have much to lose. There is little chance of affecting that person and lastly his or her opinion wouldn’t matter much. But ironically, it’s when you start sharing your heart and feelings with a far off being, he or she comes closer and takes a piece of your cake like heart. And the space reduces for all its previous residents. Does it really? Can we weigh and estimate our heart like a storehouse with some thousand relationships and feelings thrown in? Or is it a virtual space that expands according to need and time? Why do we find solace talking to people who aren’t connected to us or are a part of our life? Have we been thick enough not to have made right decision about who to accept and who to reject? Or is it the natural phenomenon of not being able to appreciate what we have and what is near to us. Maybe it’s the mirage. Of the sun bathed sand gleaming like gold dust.

So perhaps the wisdom remains in waiting, watching, appreciating what we have, caring for who we have and loving everybody we can. This approach, however shouldn’t lead to complacence and ultimate self-satisfaction. To yearn for more, is human, but perhaps only in materialistic terms or certain achievements.

Yearning for more love often leads to disappointment and confusion. But if one is lovelorn despite being immensely loved by so many people, there certainly is a loose screw somewhere. Or the other plausible explanation is that the person loves to love and be loved. The meaning of this love is unknown but its existence is much felt.

First Blog Composition - life at 20

The supposedly beautiful feeling of being 20 is not all that beautiful...Iam no more a child ..not even a teenager...recklessness is no more to be tolerated ...reponsibility is the name of the game..a 3rd yr engg student with final year approaching, life seems to now be posing its real face to me.....something that looks like the jaws of a man eater..more because I am quite apprehensive about my future and have firm insecurities about some of the very important things in my life going wrong. Apprehensive is a rather mild word...I am more like waiting for them, perenially hoping to escape them by means of prayer or pressure....one way or the other. These insecurities are such which can neither be mentioned nor explained as they seem baseless enough for common logic...but there are things and incidents much beyond logic.... these things are told to self by self...to me by me..to my head by my heart and gut. I remember as I recline in thought, how strong the urge to be 20 something was 8 years back when I was a mere 12 year old child. Life had seemed so unfair then. In simple terms, it was then growing up seemed to be a major craze but as over the years Ive matured and learnt... I believe , those were the most lovely days ...and I acknowledge that they will never come back. Maybe I sound like 80 at the moment and not 20.. but the truth is I am scared of facing the challenges life is to pose.. I wish I could delay my growing up by a few more years.. I wish my insitution was more school like..where one goes to another standard after the previous without worrying about the steering of the wheel of life. These are pretty useless thoughts as nothing of this is possible atleast in my lifetime. I dont care if it might be in future. I am mean in this case. It might matter to me, however if my future children were to be capped in such a situation. But that's too far away. What I am ever since I've been able to think and analyse confused about is what is the purpose of my life... to earn, marry, bear, bring and die? Or am I here for a general good ? Am I hear for a global or atleast some local humanitarian purpose? Or am I gonna be stuck in the rat race of earning money and acquiring means to satisfy lust. I am human.. I want the materialistic stuff too but at the same time I wish and I pray I dont lose my general focus and essence of being a human... in the sense of goodness ..in the sense of fulfilling and being forgiving. I dont consciously take care of it.. but by my being and my unconscious existence and energy..!