Bye 2020! (Merry Christmas & Happy 'Tulsi Jayanti'

 

25^th December was almost always supposed to be just Christmas. However, after 32 years of being a Hindu in India, I discovered that 25^th December is apparently also ‘Tulsi Poojan Divas’. Got a whatsapp forward on one of the larger family groups claiming this ‘Tulsi Jayanti’ and why we must celebrate and revere the ‘Tulsi Maa’.

Funny, how Hindutva is getting insecure about its share of voice on Christmas. And also hats off that they are relentless and always manage to come up with a crappy sensation that gains instant traction across the hateful hearts of so many of us.

Anyway, today was a good day. I woke up early and met some extremely positive people who beamed with natural kind happiness. The fact that people can look and convey ‘healthy’ is very inspiring. Got home to enjoy a lazy afternoon with poha and chai. Also received three Myntra parcels which I’d ordered for myself as Christmas presents. More so, bought some lipsticks and shadows which cheered up the consumer in me.

Typing this down as the night arrives and I listen to the good old ‘Coke Studio Pakistan’ and ‘Tajdar Junaid’ as friends come down to watch movies and have dinner.

Can’t believe I’ve managed a happy post. So unlike me, especially while typing blog entries. Confusion, question and uncertainty can result into exploring your darkest corners, facing your shit and then learning to live with it, each day, stronger. It leads you go through a skimming sieve that makes you flow through a tornado blowing immense amount of dust, off you. And bringing you to a world that is bigger and full of possibilities. It leaves you feeling that you’re ready to once again, put yourself out there in the world in the pursuit of your dreams and hopes.

Merry Xmas!

Bye, 2020.  

I now understand why isolation is a torture technique

It's the Christmas of 2020.

The much awaited festive energy to end this brutal year is here. A friend mentioned that Christmas is a modern concept with no reference in the 'Bible'. Regardless, it's a much celebrated festival and we all could use an excuse for a break.  

*The people in the slum next door, sing and celebrate into the night*

I decided to write this blog on a midnight instinct and it's 1:35 AM IST right now with Mumbai being chillier than it usually is. The un-lock has brought back the spirit of Mumbai and it feels live-able again. The funny thing about Mumbai is that even though I love it, it's difficult to live here. Rents are high, traffic is bad, roads are narrow and time is short. Life paces and years gallop as our daily routines chime in mindless task based lifestyles. 

The opportunity to pause barely presents itself and when it does, it's bound by caveats. And limitations. Of time, of money and the attached cost of lost alternatives. Sometimes, that alternative is love. Sometimes, it's friendship. But mostly, it's mindfulness. About oneself and her environment. 

I imagine myself staring as life rushes past me, with its slithering sharp pace and a blinding charm that mutes away inner voices. Especially the inconvenient ones. Its reassuring safety, which is truly, just a habit and inertia of comfort, keeps one from revaluating mindsets and choices. Clearly, these barriers are solidified over time and it takes quite a bit of will to accept them and break through them. And what comes in handy the most, is a trust group. People who support you and believe in you.

Funnily, in the last one week, at-least three people expressed more confidence in me than I'd have given myself credit for. Their kind observation worked like a catalyst to stir a series of emotions in a question-answer format within me. I asked myself questions and responded honestly to them. In the process, I could identify my barriers, my real issues, some grievances and some random notches of sub-conscious excuses. 

It also helped me remind myself of lessons I'd learnt the hard way and I swore a few years back to live by them. I am listing them below as a ready reminder for self:

1. Let life happen. Give it a chance. Be fluid.

2. One can control very few things. Control them well. But only control, what you can.

3. Present will definitely shape future. Still, live in the present.

We tend to forget life learnings as an outcome of a hectic template-led life which is plagued with continuous and mindless application of self in a rather superficial but consuming manner. Amidst the glamour of a cosmopolitan millennial lifestyle, I'd gotten quite out of touch with myself.

The isolation made sure, only demons showed up from deep inside my mind. Angels were clearly quarantined some place away. Demons destruct will and judgement. Causing pity, pain and frustration. In such states of battling once-in-a-100-years emergencies as well as personal setbacks, it's justified to lose mind (and self-confidence).

I now understand why isolation is a torture technique. 

Strangely on Christmas, I've ended up discussing everything not so Merry. The dark side of personality continues to have an upper-hand, I guess. Btw, this is conspicuous, even in the clothes I wear.

[Wardrobe Hues: 40% Black, 30% Blue, 20% White, 5% Red] - "This is an outcome of natural gravitation I feel towards these colors but I'd say it's also a 'Statement'."

 

1st May 2020 - Romance & Love in times of Corona

Not my usual covid space but today's going to be a poem. I have been meaning to write in Hindi for a while now but just couldnt find the mind space to.

Today was surprisingly inspiring though.

Since it's also my parents' 32nd anniversary, I'll probably dedicate the poem to them:-

Shuruaat yaad nahi rehti aur ant kabhi bhoola nahi jaata

Kaisi hoti hai mohabbat, bataye koi ishaq zaada

Umangon ki nadiyaan behtin hain aur moh moh ke jharne

Geet gaati hai duniya saari aur hawa chalti hai aah bharne

Ek pal mein kabhi ek umr hi jee lete hain, kabhi umr bhar bhi nahi jiya jaata

Kaisi hoti hai mohabbat, bataye koi ishaq zaada

Jab zindagi sapno se bhi khoobsoorat ban jaye, to neend kise kab aayegi

Jab tadap bhi raas aane lag jaaye, to sharaab bhi nahi lubhaayegi

Kal tak hum ajnabi thay, ab saaya bhi mera tum se aata

Kaisi hoti hai mohabbat, bataye koi ishaq zaada

26th APRIL 2020 – 33rd DAY OF COMPLETE LOCK-DOWN OF INDIA: HOPE | DESPAIR | DREAMS

44^TH DAY OF MY SOCIAL ISOLATION

26,496 POSITIVE, 824 DEAD, 5804 RECOVERED

General Feeling: “We are tucked away comfortably in our homes while millions fight disease, hunger and depression. Food, security of life and basic life necessities like clean water, shelter, sanitation and personal hygiene are luxuries that we can write about in our blog posts and speeches. However there are some among us who are tirelessly working towards doing their bit. They are pushing their capacities to do the right thing. Putting themselves on the line to save many others. This display of courage and humanity can save us from being a total failure of a society. If you can, with whatever you can, please help. And like I’ve been iterating, donate to smaller organizations who you can audit for yourselves.”

I have so much to say but so little time. However today is a Sunday and I have prioritized this over all other tasks I have for today. I am going to divide this blog into three parts which are distinct, yet connected with the thread of COVID and myself.

Hope & Prepare

(Alert: Nerd paragraphs ahead)

The entire world has pinned its hope on a safe & effective vaccine to fight the Corona virus. Across the world, there are about 70 contenders for such a vaccine which are undergoing tests & trials at various stages. Almost all of them are re-worked versions of existing vaccines for different viruses – MERS, SARS, EBOLA, BCG etc. It’s easier to develop a vaccine from existing ones rather than starting all from scratch – that may take a mighty long time which we may not have at our disposal.

Among them, the front runners are 3 vaccines – Hydroxychloroquine (HCQ – it’s the same one Trump made such a deal about without knowing much about science and coerced India to export millions of it to the US), Remdesivir – an anti-viral drug used to treat HIV positive patients (just two days back in a Chinese study, this failed to produce effective results but the company that produces it, Gilead and some analysts disagree), BCG – a long trusted friend of humanity which has saved millions from Tuberculosis, is a safe, strong and effective vaccine – and is being tested to see whether it can really help the Corona situation.

However apart from these three is a fourth and a very interesting candidate – ChAdOx1. Already under ‘human trials’ in Germany and UK, it’s being developed by University of Oxford with claims that if found effective, it would be ready for mass production and consumption by September. As per experts this vaccine candidate has 80% chance of success. What separates it from other contenders is that is the only possible vaccine that can hope to see the light of the day this year while all others if at all found effective, will be ready for mass consumption only sometime next year.

If this works out, it would mean that we would have saved not just a lot of lives, but stopped further economic gloom by ease of lock-downs. Spur in economic activity is bound to improve employment rates and in turn will reduce hunger, distress and death.

Having said that we must remember that we may NEVER find a safe and effective vaccine for COVID-19. It’s a possibility that we must be aware of and prepare for. This will mean a very different world and a very different ‘normal’. The sooner we prepare our minds for it, the easier will we be prepared for a new world order.

Education - Tool for Social Change

I connected with a friend I had met 8 years ago on Jagriti Yatra. I remembered him as a friendly guy from Madhya Pradesh who ran a school for tribal children.  We used to jam quite a bit in our journey and he had deep voice that sang ‘Baawra Mann’ perfectly. Shweta, he and I were good friends. However he saw me off at Ahmedabad station in January 2012 and we never spoke after that. We continued being Facebook friends and shared just about a couple of hellos until this Friday when we found the time to speak over a phone call.

He has been doing some amazing work at his organization called Argini (http://agrini.org/) – which has taken upon the task of imparting education to the tribal and marginalized children of the MP – Maharashtra border at Teoni. For ten years this man has dedicated his life to using education as a tool for social change. He is an engineer who gave up lofty dreams of MBA or the Corporate or stable love and family life to dedicate himself to a larger cause of society and country. He travelled across the world to understand educational systems of rich and poor countries alike and bring back his learnings to India. He and his team are now completely dedicated to proving relief to migrant workers, children and women during the COVID crisis as the border town of Teoni sees huge migration across the state borders.

The public school run by Agrini at Teoni, Madhya Pradesh

He is also someone who understands that hatred breeds hatred and fear only has negative outcomes. Today the narrative around lock-down is of fear. Actually, corona or not, today the narrative around the country is of fear.

Fear of speaking against the government and being witch-hunted as an ‘anti-national’.

Fear of fundamentalism.

Fear of lynching.

Fear of practicing one’s faith.

Fear of all those things that we were not supposed to be fearful of.

The spirit of our country is embedded in our constitution. And while most of us won’t have the time to study the whole text of it, at-least refer to the Preamble of our constitution which is the key to understanding and deciphering it.

My friend, Gourav Jaiswal, is also thinking on lines of how education can be a tool for political change. At the same time he’s aware that political change alone will not serve anything. An ideological change in the country (and the world) is required. How does one fuel such a change? Especially commoners like us who have no power or money to tilt anything. The answer is complicated but perhaps lies in basic simple understanding of human psychology. He says we need the right communication strategy to bring about a lasting ideological change – a change which breeds love, freedom, empathy and creativity.

This is Gourav. 

We also spoke of our personal lives. A lot has happened for both of us in these 8 years and 2 hours of conversation were not enough to even touch the tip of the ice-berg. However, we were happy to connect and I am glad that this lock-down has gotten me in touch with so many of those, who I’d been too busy for. Life is made beautiful by people we meet. Remembering them and learning from them often feeds into our spiritual needs. This conversation was that fulfilling for me.

I am now going to try and help him raise funds for his organization which is committed to help the voiceless and the helpless during these cruel times.

Dreams and the Subconscious

Anyone who knows me closely, knows that I’ve had an almost consistent history of extremely vivid dreams. I have spent hours narrating details of so many of my dreams to family & friends. One such dream is a blog post (and chapter 1 of  my unfinished book) as well!!

(Link here:- http://beautifulanduglystory.blogspot.com/2015/08/leh-bareli.html )

In the last three days, I’ve had two extremely vivid dreams.

On Friday morning, I woke up feeling stressed. I had dreamt of having a miscarriage. With only my parents by my side, helpless and trying to call for help at a hospital guest-house with no doctor attending to their child. We were somewhere close to Indore (I don’t know why Indore). However given the COVID crisis, there was no help. The staff was less and very busy. The doctors were few. And even though we belong to a rather privileged class, no amount of money could get us help. The dream ended with all of us desperately trying and praying for help while there was none.

I woke up wondering what that dream meant. Was it an outcome of work stress? Was it an outcome of news stories I read about non-COVID patients dying due to lack of medical attention? Was it an outcome of a specific incident that took place in Bharatpur (Rajasthan) a week back where a Muslim woman who was about to deliver was denied entry in a government hospital due to her religion?

(Irresponsible media sensationalism and fake news has built an image of Muslims as perpetrators of Covid infection after the whole Tablighi Jamaat incident blew up across the country.)

She had a miscarriage at the entry of the hospital. She was beaten and made to clean her own blood. This is the state of affairs. How can one beat a woman who had miscarriaged? How do you look at someone’s faith in a situation like this?

Why do we forget that a woman who’s bringing a life to this world is transcending something between the material and mortal universes?

As if this dream was not intense enough, last night I dream of being in his arms.

I have been to his home town once for real. We were supposed to drive there sometime during the monsoons. I could never really happen. (Like so many of our trips could never really happen). I was at his place with a few other friends. I had never been to his house before. It was a small but a very neat place. He had wrapped up everything from elsewhere and moved back home. In his luggage I saw some of my dresses. I was happy to find those pieces which were missing from my wardrobe. They had accidentally made way to his luggage. How I didn’t know. But I was happy to find my clothes and find myself at his place.

The dream felt unreal for I felt so safe and relaxed after such a long time.

A dream like this after so many years rattles you and leaves you wondering whether you’ve indeed been able to pick up all your pieces.  It also leaves you wondering whether you do really want to dust off everything.

I have tried to do the wrong things. The risky things our heart motivates us towards. I have tried to do the right things. The ones that the world preaches. I have lived by my instincts as well by the rules. Neither of the attempts has been truly successful.

Therefore, perhaps I should look within and search for my answers. In my sub-conscious.

Until the next post, only think love & peace.

22nd APRIL 2020 – 29th DAY OF COMPLETE LOCK-DOWN OF INDIA

40^TH DAY OF MY SOCIAL ISOLATION

20,471 POSITIVE, 3,960 RECOVERED, 652 DEAD

General Feeling: “Not every day does one experience intense emotions. Today seemed like a rather dull day except for the fact that I felt very aware of myself and my surroundings. By surroundings, I mostly mean people I work with, my friends and family. I felt aware that everyone is going through a rough patch in their own way. People living with parents, people living without them. Those with company and those alone. So it’s in best interest of everyone to cut some slack and show some love.”

I’ve never been a morning person but this week my morning mood has been excessively awful. The first thought after waking up is “what to fix for breakfast” and it’s certainly not too pleasant. Instead of finding time to relax and soak in the morning sun with a cup of kadak chai, it’s juggling between breakfast, dishes and starting off with work. The days when I am supposed to do common chores is particularly stressful.

I am telling myself to be calm and thankful, nevertheless. I can display my humanity now. Next week I’ll turn into a crying child or a raging monster. Yes, that’s right. The PMS week will be here and by no means is it going to be quiet. The noise in my head will annoy the shit out of me. I don’t even know what people who interact with me go through, when I PMS. For years, I’ve warned boyfriends and parents to not pick up fights with me when I’m PMSing. Since no one really gets it (except mom), I’ve resolved to speaking minimum when I am down or about to be down. That’s the best I can do. Isolate and shut-up. And the lock-down totally helps.

What I also feel aware of is the fact, that time is indeed cyclical. Good and bad times alternate as they come and go. Of all the uncertainty that’s present in our lives, the ‘passage of time’ is indeed certain. I remember my mother reading out ‘Satyanarayan Katha’ in which one of the verses said -

“acche ke baad bura, bure ka baad accha samay aata hi hai”

This thought can keep us going, in the most difficult of times. People may argue that these stories and epics are not logical references. That’s fine. I really don’t care about the reference. Sometimes we should submit our obsession with sources. We should instead focus on the message and the thought. This thought holds universal validity. Time, unlike love, is cyclical.

However memories that time creates tend to fade and sometimes it becomes necessary for one to talk about his or her life to someone or write about it to keep a coherent record of events and feelings. We, amidst our emotions tend to forget a lot of our own sorrows. And unless someone reminds us of how we felt and what we went through, our hearts become way too forgiving. Therefore I often take the pain to talk about my pain and sorrows to my loved ones. It’s not just sharing. It’s also healing.

Anyway, I do want to mention that COVID is here to stay longer than we want to believe. I’ve been reading excessively on how likely it is for us to find a safe and effective vaccine to fight the COVID-19. And if found, how early will it be available in mass proportions for the world. I’ll do a summary of it soon. Hopefully, this weekend. But one thing I do want to put forward right away is that the vaccine is not happening anytime soon.

Also there’s a good chance we may never find a vaccine. “We do not find vaccines against all viruses”, said the director of CDC, Washington. And it’s something to be cognizant of. Therefore the best strategy is to delay the infection, maintain its curve, bolster our healthcare facilities and boost our immunities.

And by the way, immunity is not something you can build in a matter of days or weeks. Sure, one should quit smoking. Sure, one should eat healthy food. But a lot more goes into having a good immunity. It’s not how much one exercises and the BMI one maintains.

It’s dependent on factors that may seem abstract to the layman. It’s a blend of genes, sleep, happiness factor, stress level, existing disorders, past operations, drugs you’ve ingested, food you’ve eaten over your life, temperatures you’ve lived in, etc. etc.

It’s more complicated than we think and our gym trainers or dieticians tell us. I know this because I’ve binge read a lot of stuff. I love to provide links to most information I mention in my posts. But like I said earlier, it’s not about the source or references sometimes. It’s something that must appeal to your common sense. If you know your mind and your body, you should know this.

Awareness, whether about time that has gone by or yet to come is some-what important but difficult.

Awareness, about our present and today is most significant. And hence 'living in the moment' has been a cliché for quite a while.

Mindfulness as a concept tries to teach you this. Yoga does too. But so do simple day-to-day activities which may not sound fancy. Cooking, cleaning, crafting. Making anything with your hands. Something tangible which is an output of your productive genius makes you live in the moment and that is highly fulfilling.

Maybe Marx tried to say this in an entirely different context.

Looking forward to the weekend already.

This is my bed in a hotel room of Seoul. I loved sleeping here. And I wish I lived in that moment so much more than I did. 

Until the next post (cant’ even say ‘tomorrow’ anymore), please ‘live-in-the-moment’

18th APRIL 2020 - 25TH DAY OF INDIA'S COMPLETE LOCK-DOWN

36^TH DAY OF MY SOCIAL ISOLATION

14,798 POSITIVE, 2,168 RECOVERED, 499 DEAD

General Feeling: “You know there are times you don’t want to seek or give explanations. To no-one. Not even to yourself. It means you’re fed up. Of so many things (and people)”

It’s been 5 days since I’ve not written anything. I was extremely tired of being committed to this blog. And there was more work than usual. Also, the house work was leaving me quite exhausted. Moreover, the summer is here and April is not a very friendly month in any part of our country.

Thanks to my privileges, I have a comfortable home to live in with good air conditioning. My heart goes out to those who have none of this. In fact, summer is least of their worries. These are the marginalized and voiceless people of our society who have no safety net whatsoever and live meagerly on daily wages or alms. Both of which have dwindled now.

I am not sure how I sleep every night very well knowing that there are millions without food, shelter or clothing just languishing in hidden corners of our broken physical and social infrastructure. The central government and particularly the PM have received criticism about lack of proper planning to deal with the poorer sections of the society. In the narrative of the PM, while we are "to show compassion and sacrifice for the country", what does the government do, is a question that remains largely un-answered.

Anyway, I’ve started to make peace with the fact that there’s nothing I can do (although my heart knows that when each one of us tends to think that and do nothing, it is genuinely just a state of apathy). I clearly, do not have the heart or even the balls to put myself at risk to do the right thing. I am concealed in my home and writing away is easy. Action, is what is difficult but also necessary. Being fully aware, I still just sit around and get on with the day.

A couple of friends asked me why is it that I stopped writing. Was COVID no more that exciting? Or have I run out of the will to make the effort? COVID is not any less pertinent or exciting. It is just a way of life now. Social isolation is getting easier as we build our new habits and routines around it. Also, as essentials services have begun to spring back to life, we have enough food and milk to worry much about anything else. Moreover, continued security of income fuels the complacency that is slowly settling in.

Some of us, I feel, are also becoming lazier when it comes to following COVID related protocols. We had placed stricter norms for ourselves than the ones the government recommends. We were taking extra precaution. Washing everything with soap, leaving away supplies for over 48 hours etc. etc. Now we’re starting to feel like we may be safe from it and COVID is not likely to infect us.

As per experts, the infection hasn’t peaked in India yet but that doesn’t mean that it will not.

We’re only safe until we’re not.

Today was supposed to be the day to chill, rest and make merry. But like most things, Saturday didn’t go as planned. First, the Wi-Fi was being a real bitch. In absence of good and continuous internet, how does one do anything at all? (I am posting this on a 3G hotspot!!).

Second, I stirred up a session of badgering and abuse in my engineering college WhatsApp group by sharing the # people who had gathered for several religious events in India before & after the lock-down began. These groups consisted of several faiths including Hindus. The WhatsApp group being a classist, parochial and staunchly ‘Hindu’ group believed that they had ‘tolerated’ Muslims for a very long time and the community was to blame for all the failings the ‘Hindus’ had suffered. My intent was to question all religious gatherings at such a precarious time and nothing else. My intent was also to question, why is it that we tend to sensationalize what we want to believe, propel and spread? The question is not just about religion. The question is about the hatred we harbor in our hearts. Despite our education, we continue to have closed minds. Despite our constitution, we continue to be section-ists. And despite our democracy, we tend to heavy hand those we can.

Third, I burnt my working hand with hot oil today shortly after this WhatsApp brawl. I am not superstitious but the thought that instantly came to my mind was that all the spite against me had manifested, after all.

I was trying to make moong daal pakaudis which now is an unfinished project. I am sitting on my bed typing away with a cloth dipped in cold water tied all over my left hand. The burns are painful. But not as painful, as some other ones, which lie deep in my heart.

Around 6:30, I finally told myself to sit up and do something calming. One of the options was to meditate. Other was to write. Quite apparently, I’ve chosen the latter.

Just as I penned down the first paragraph, came a call, which has deeply upset me. And brought back a turmoil which had taken a backseat amid this COVID crisis. I wept for a bit with my face buried into the keyboard. And like every other time, wiped my tears and told myself that nothing and no-one who doesn’t treat you right, is worth your time, and certainly your tears.

I told myself that I am blessed to have a family which loves me unconditionally, an education that can keep me financially afloat. A body that is not constrained and a mind that is open to challenges.

I told myself that I have savings to fall back on and a lovely sibling to laugh with.

I told myself I have friends who adore me and will be there when I need them. I’ve earned human capital through my some-what complex life and I am glad I have some jewels in my life.

I told myself that I have a house to live in, plenty of food and amenities.

I told myself I have a job to go, and a chirpy lovely Maybelline team to cheer me up.

I told myself that life was as empty or as full as I’d like it to be. And like so many times earlier, this is the time to embrace yourself and let life be.

Dev, (a senior in organization & father-like figure) has often told me, “Priyanka, chin up and chest out. You bring sunshine to the world”. I want to bring some sun in my own life which seems rather clouded today.

How does one smear through the clouds as the sun-rays do?

While I put up a brave face for my own sake, I must tell you that I cringe to be home. I cringe for love, support and intimacy. To hug and to be cared for. Just like any other human being.

Hope that’s fair enough.

Until tomorrow, playing the balancing act.

13th April 2020 – 20th DAY OF COMPLETE LOCK-DOWN OF INDIA

31st DAY OF MY SOCIAL ISOLATION

9240 POSITIVE, 331 DEAD (3.58%), 1096 RECOVERED (11.86%)

General Feeling: “I am not in touch with my feelings of late. I am kind of bored, tired, annoyed and sad all rolled into one. Also not so scared of COVID anymore. Experts say we’re bound to catch it sooner or later. So, whatever”

So bored that I clicked meaningless selfies and also put a white-black filter!

PS: “If we’re to catch COVID one day or the other and it’s only a matter of time, it’s best to delay the infection for as long as possible. As the virus burns through human population, it evolves to become less hostile and in the end causes only very mild infections. BTW, viruses evolve thousands of times faster than humans do. For them, evolution, mutation and cross-breeding can happen in a matter of weeks. Imagine that!”

It’s supposed to be the eve of the last day of our nation-wide lock-down. Several thoughts race in my mind today regarding this situation. First, that it’s starting to get on my nerves. But then again, I shouldn’t be complaining. Second, I really wish this was really the penultimate day of this lock-down saga and life was about to go back to normal once again this week. The cook would start coming in, I could order Pizza and take an uber to a salon!

Third, our benevolent PM is making a speech once again tomorrow morning at 10 AM. I wonder what the poor, un-educated, aloof might be thinking about it. Maybe he’s celebrating in his mind waiting for it to be all over tomorrow and he could get back to earning his living or going home to his village. Maybe people in their minds are finally relieved that it’s going to be over tomorrow, and those who’ve managed to survive are looking to find some respite in the lift of this lock-down.

However, what we hear is this ain’t happening. The lock-down has already been extended in 7 states. With the single highest death rate (#51) in one day, it’s highly dangerous to abruptly conclude the lock-down. Especially when our Indian authorities have finally hinted at evidence of community transmission (which btw, as per many experts had started about 5 weeks earlier in early March). Early feelers tell us that lock-down will be extended or if it isn’t, there’ll be a watered-down version which is going to stay for who-knows-how-long.

But honestly, are we mentally prepared to go back to the so called ‘normal’? If Modi Ji were to announce tomorrow morning that we could all get back to the drill 15^th on wards, would we be thrilled to resume where we left? Or would we say, umm, "I need some more work-from-home"?

We’re all tired of staying indoors and curbing so many of our activities. We’re tired of cooking & cleaning. We’re tired of not meeting friends and going out clubbing.

But perhaps, we’re not tired of getting enough sleep. 
We’re not tired of finally finding ‘me-time’. 
We’re not tired of getting time to spend with loved ones, either for real or virtually. 
We’re not tired of avoiding all the stress-causing traffic. 
We’re not tired of a to-do list that’s not hyper-demanding. 
We’re kind of okay. We’re kind of relieved. 
Even though we are anxious, we’re kind of okay. 
We’re kind of happy to have a break.

Now these are naturally mixed feelings. And mixed feelings usually lead to a state of being confused and being ‘blah-ed’. However, one thing is clear. While lock-down is difficult, it’s also a state of rest. Rest that we all needed. Not just to give ourselves a break. But also to be able to reflect.

And re-direct our energies towards what really matters. And everyone, is actually being compelled to do this. God-damn virus, what did you do?

I hope, the ones suffering find relief. I hope Modi Ji announces a universal basic income for the poor. I hope the cases go do down. I hope we save all lives. I hope Corona goes, but leaves back important lessons.

Not much today. Mondays are still Mondays and I want to chill and laze in my bed.

Until tomorrow, peace!

Personal Opinion: If you are willing, donate to smaller funds. They are probably doing more good than big-ass sparkling advertised funds. (If you know me, you know what I'm talking about).